I’m sorry I haven’t posted a blog since February 28th. Although everyone who knows me knows that I am annoyingly optimistic and cheerful, I have been struggling over the past couple of weeks with self doubt, a touch of heartache and a boatload of fear. I’m not ready to share the details, but would appreciate whatever prayers and good vibes and happy thoughts that you can throw my way.
So many people keep telling me, “You need to give it over to God and let Him handle it.” I don’t know about you, but that certainly sounds like the best way to handle any problem… but the true issue is HOW to give it over to Him. How do I just say, “Here God… I’m not thinking about this anymore”?
Granted, throughout my life it seems that good things always come from the doors that have closed in my life. After my divorce, I moved to Greenville where I quickly got a good job with Bank of America Mortgage (just by starting a conversation with a random stranger at the cell phone store). That led me to a transition job with SunTrust Mortgage that bought me time while I applied to law schools. Once I got into law school, the kids and I were able to move back to Raleigh where they could be closer to their dad. Since law school tried to kill me, I left after three semesters and had a new job working with a political consultant less than a week later. After a year, I was offered a position where I work now (which is where I briefly interned while in law school). All of this brought me back to Raleigh and kept me here long enough to reconnect with Joe (who dated one of my friends in high school)… and now we have been blissfully married for ten months today. As I have blogged about before, HAPPY BEGETS HAPPY BEGETS HAPPY.
Sure we have had our share of insignificant struggles, but none of those compare to the darkness I feel as though I am facing now. Decisions must be made that affect much more than me and they have far-reaching consequences for which I don’t want to be responsible. I have been praying incessantly and I have cried more than I would care to admit, but the fact of the matter is every single day I feel more at peace in my heart. Every day I feel like things are going to be just fine. Every day I feel more and more comfort in knowing that whichever way this goes, we are all going to be fine.
I guess that is God at work in me – giving me peace when I have none and giving me comfort when I doubt. I am so thankful for all of my many blessings and I need to focus on that. I have transcended before and can do it again.
On Saturday, I wore mascara for the first time in two weeks. I explained that significance to a friend of mine by saying, “Wearing mascara proves that I have not cried today and, more importantly, it proves I started the day with no INTENT of crying.”